Home Front on the Waterfront: One Last Swim PDF  | Print |  E-mail
Written by Lori Price   
Thursday, 08 July 2010

My family is enjoying the hot summer weather and all that a lake house has to offer. One family member in particular could never get enough of the lake.

My dog Abby swims in the lake as if it’s her job. And I guess, for a golden retriever, it is so instinctual that it is a job, of sorts. If it were up to her she would never leave the lake, which is why she wears a life jacket.

When I realized I was fighting a losing battle—of insisting she take some breaks throughout her lake visits—I sent my kids to the Main Lake Market for a doggie life vest. But even with the vest on she wears herself out retrieving her Frisbee a hundred times a day or swimming alongside the sunfish as my son sails around our cove or, by chasing ducks and other critters she has no chance of catching.

 

If we are down by the dock, she is in the water, sometimes just digging for a treasure in the sand or splashing around with my kids. She is a water dog and just can’t get enough.

 

When I successfully ban her from the water and send her to the house to relax for a while, someone inevitably opens the front door, freeing her from her exile. Suddenly and ever so quietly—as if she had just escaped from Alcatraz—she would float by me as I sat on the dock. Sometimes from a distance I’d catch a glimpse of her head bobbing up and down, like a cork on the water, and knew she had made her way back to the lake she loved so much.

 

Last week my husband and I sat on the dock. We were kid-free and we were enjoying the peace and quiet. It was dark and a breeze was blowing ever so slightlabby_by_rowboat.jpgy. The lake was calm and we sat there staring out at the boats making their way home, as we became mesmerized by the sounds and the tranquility of the lake at night.

 

As we sat there I noticed Abby was also staring out at the lake, taking in all the smells and catching the breeze on her fur. As I watched her I thought about how calm she appeared, as if taking her cues from the lake itself. Often at night she’d go up on the deck and fall asleep, worn out from a day of lake activities. But on that night she sat on the end of the dock, like a statue, taking it all in as if silently appreciating the peacefulness of the lake.  I hope she knew how lucky she was and how much we loved her.

 

Just four days later Abby died suddenly and unexpectedly of what the vet believes was an aneurysm of the heart. She was eight years old, in great shape and had never been sick. She collapsed and never regained consciousness. I held her head and stroked her body expecting her to wake up. She felt no pain and didn’t suffer. I was told her brain died when she fell to the ground but her heart kept beating for another 5 minutes…I’m not surprised by that, since her heart was so big and filled with love—love for her family, love for an active fun life, and love for the lake she so enjoyed and perhaps was bidding farewell to on that warm quiet evening four days earlier. I wonder what she was thinking and if somehow she knew she had taken her last swim and wouldn’t be back again.

 

On the post at the end of our dock I attached Abby’s life vest, her Frisbee, and her pink faux diamond studded collar. It is sad to see but somehow brings us some comfort. She was a huge part of our family and we miss her dearly.

 

The other day, from my living room window, the sight of a large dog swimming past my dock made me do a double take. I am even more surprised to see my son and my new neighbor chasing after the dog in my Whaler. The dog, new to the lake and swimming, went out too far while chasing ducks. His owner and my son were on a rescue mission...although the dog, like Abby, saw no need for a rescue. The scene made me laugh out loud. It seems any chance he gets he heads right for the water.

 

Maybe I won’t need my dockside memorial to forever remind me of my beloved Abby swimming and enjoying the lake. It brings me joy to see my new canine neighbor discovering for the first time what Abby knew and loved so much: the thrill of swimming and how lucky a dog is to spend its summer’s on Lake Hopatcong.

 

Welcome to our neighborhood on Lake Hopatcong, Prince, Poochey, and Gino...Abby's paradise.  


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Alice  - warning!   |2010-07-08 18:25:18
Can you give us a tissue alert next time? Thanks Lori for a great snapshot of your beloved pet - and all pets everywhere, past, present and future!
AUNT LARAINE   |2010-07-08 21:03:46
GOOD BYE DEAR ABBY
REST IN PEACE
Tina   |2010-07-08 21:34:45
To a life, despite being too short, well lived. Godspeed Abby, rest easy girl.
Sherry O   |2010-07-08 22:12:26
Lori I am so sorry. We talked golden retrievers and how wonderful they are. There is a special place in heaven for them - greeting everyone with an enthusiastic tail wave and lick. Thoughts are with you and your family.
Debbie M   |2010-07-08 22:36:26
As I sit here crying I pray for you and your family with this terrible loss. But thank you so much for letting us get to know your wonderful pet.
Harry De Kolf   |2010-07-09 09:07:20
Lori: I can feel your pain at the loss of Abby. She was a wonderful animal who was loved and well taken care of by the entire family. I rescued Bandit just short of 2 years ago and he is an important part of our family. I know you grieve her loss deeply. Find comfort in God's promises.
Nancy   |2010-07-09 09:11:39
She was a one in a MILLION!!!! we all
loved Abbey.. she loved attention.. she
would not stop till she got it...Loved
her MOHAWK.. She always looked clean cut.. I will never forget the Big rock she would carry into the pool.. I am sure the little guys miss her much more than us.. She was the leader and whenever I couldn't find her Erin would say she is sleeping on Miss Lori's bed... She had a tremendous PLAY drive...I am sure she in Doggie Heaven... XOXOXOX
Jill Malanga   |2010-07-09 10:28:34
Lori, She will be missed by many but not forgotten..doggie heaven must have received her with a frisbie and of course lake front!!She will be swimming with the rest of those retrievers that have gone before her. Of course she will have to find a new "barber" for those wonderful haircuts!!xoxo to Abbey...
Tammy   |2010-07-09 10:35:56
Oh boy, you really know how to tug at my heart strings. I'm sitting in my kitchen in a puddle of tears. Lori, Ritchie, Leslie, Daria & David I am so sorry for your loss. I am so sure Abbey is still swimming!!! I love you all so much!!!
Lisa  - Last Swim   |2010-07-09 11:14:06
Lori, My heart breaks. We'll miss Abbey playing with the river rocks in your pool, instead of swimming.
kare  - last swim     |2010-07-09 11:21:28
Hi Lori,While I have not been able to cry since my stroke, you have brought me to tears with your article!Our Darla is close to the end,as she is blind,deaf , incontinent with kidney and liver issues,the vet says if she stops eating,we need to take that final step!I dont want to think about it because I am still unable to use my left arm,so I would not be able to hold her.that hurts.but then she will be able to see and hear in doggie heaven if there is such a placeand she will be happy.Your article hit the spot!God blessLori
RM     |2010-07-09 11:24:32
So sorry Lori. Beautiful article.
Princess, my dog also relaxes when she goes to the lake. She sits at the end of the dock looking out enjoying every minute!!! They are no dummies - they know the good life.
the Porters  - Abby   |2010-07-09 12:55:00
SO So Sad she was the Official PARTY ANIMAL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Loved her... Her play drive was Unbelievable and she
could steal a plate or bowl of food like a magician...
Amazing.. She loved attention.

Hope the kids are doing a little better.. Time will heal...
Lena   |2010-07-10 08:49:55
I am so sorry...Thank you for sharing the article...
I don't think that I'll ever be able to see a mohawk without thinking of Abby...
Robbin Price  - One Last Swim   |2010-07-12 09:26:39
Beautiful article Lori. You made me cry. Abby was a beautiful dog, although you know I always made fun of her haircut! Since all dogs go to heaven, I know she's splashing around right now with our Bailey. Such special dogs....
Marie Fitzgibbons   |2010-07-12 10:05:31
I'm so sorry.
Jo Ann  - one last swim   |2010-07-13 10:19:18
Dear Lori,
Loved your story and will read to my 7 year old granddaughter, Iris, whose dog Lacy died. She tried to write a story to express her love. Now I will
show her how to tell a Vermont dog's story, a farm dog who didn't have Abby's opportunity to enjoy Lake Hopatcong but surely would have loved it.
The responses to your story about Abby show how our pets add a most precious dimension to our lives and help us accept loss and renew our spirits to move on and open our hearts as we heal.
Thanks.
pat andersen  - the loss of Abby   |2010-07-30 17:26:50
Our hearts are broken for you. The loss of a family dog leaves a terrible emotiness in your home. May your memories be endless and bring smiles to your faces.
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